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Learn This Powerful Trick To Achieve Greater Happiness, Success and Inner Peace

In life we are faced with obstacles and challenges every single day. Whether it’s having to deal with a demanding client at work, having to have a difficult conversation with your partner, or having one of your loved ones pass away, life can be just downright tough.

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5 Powerful Principles For Overcoming Your Fears

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Learn This Powerful Principle To Change Your Life Forever

Life can be tough, confusing and downright difficult to navigate. Wouldn’t it be nice if there was a simple principle or practice that we could implement that would help us make more money, lose weight, achieve happiness and become more successful? Well, guess what? There is.

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7 Tips For Achieving Success in 2016

For some, 2015 was the year all your wildest dreams came true. You landed your dream job, you travelled the world, or you made a lot of money. For some, you found yourself unable to break out of your rut. Unable to break the shackles from the limitations you place on yourself and your potential. 2015 wasn’t your year. But 2016 can be. Continue reading “7 Tips For Achieving Success in 2016”

Bulletproof 4-Step Goal Setting Template For Achieving Your New Years Resolutions

It’s that time of year again. As Christmas and New Years Eve approaches we let ourselves off the leash. We allow ourselves to enjoy the holiday season, drinking and eating good food and spending time with our family and friends. We’ve earnt it. It’s been a long year. Continue reading “Bulletproof 4-Step Goal Setting Template For Achieving Your New Years Resolutions”

24 Resources For Dealing With Life

Everybody needs a little help sometimes. A little pat on the back or encouragement to keep on working hard and chasing their dreams. Some are lucky enough to have a family member or friend to turn to for support, an idol or a mentor, but some of us aren’t that fortunate. Continue reading “24 Resources For Dealing With Life”

6 Tips For Achieving Your Potential

I want to start things off by asking you a simple, but thought provoking question: Are you living up to your potential?

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5 Tips for Building and Maintaining Motivation

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When The World Is Covered In Darkness, Let Us Be The Shining Light.

On the 13th of November the world was shocked by the horrific news of the brutal terror attacks that occurred in Paris. These attacks showed us that the modern world can be a dangerous and unpredictable place and that life is certainly precious and short. Continue reading “When The World Is Covered In Darkness, Let Us Be The Shining Light.”

When your actions match what you think and say you’re going to do, then you’ll be happy.

“When your actions match what you think and say you’re going to do, then you’ll be happy.”

I came across a quote of similar nature to this the other day and it has stuck with me like glue. It just makes so much sense.

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What do you do when things go bad?

“When you can’t change the situation, change your reaction to the situation.”

Personally this is one of my most favourite and influential quotes. Every single day we are faced with situations that we may not like. This is going to happen to everyone, everyday. Period.

So if we can’t stop bad things happening to us, how can we ever expect to be happy? The answer lies completely in the fact that we have the power to choose how we react to these unfavourable situations and events.

Take this example: Picture yourself driving down the road. You’re running late to an important meeting in town and the traffic is horrible. You are literally crawling forward and the congestion doesn’t look like it’s going to reduce any time soon. How do you react? You can cuss, curse and complain and allow yourself to become rattled, only to arrive to work in the same amount of time and off your game. OR you can choose to take a deep breathe, accept the fact that any form of anger won’t improve the situation, learn from the situation so that next time you leave a little earlier, get to work in the same amount of time, apologize and take responsibility for being late and continue your day in a positive frame of mind.

Which reaction to you think will bring you more happiness in the long run? By any means I am not saying that reacting favourably to negative situations is easy, but, like all habits it can be learned when conscious effort and practice is applied.

All we can do in life is make mistakes and learn from them so that we can minimize the mistakes we make in the future. If something goes wrong, accept it, learn from it and don’t make the same mistake again. By doing this you can learn to control your reactions when faced with adversity and act in a way that is both more productive and better for you overall.

The next time something goes wrong follow this three step process:

  1. Accept that it’s happened and that it’s not going to change.
  2. If you did something that could have been avoided, learn from it.
  3. Move on.

This process requires self awareness and deliberate internal thought in order to realize that when faced with a negative situation it is a) out of your control and b) knowing that you have complete control over how you react to it.

The simple realization of the fact that many things in life are out of our control, yet our reactions are under our control has had a profound impact on my life. Is this something that you can apply to bring more happiness to your life?

Remember, when you can’t control the situation, control your reaction to it.

Cheers,

O.H

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